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Hello everyone!

Yes! I'm back again after a long hiatus from the blogosphere.. Though I haven't posted anything for the past 10 months  (to be exact), it amazes me though that some of you still get to visit this page and waste your time in reading some of my old posts. Now my blog traffic has reached the 20,000 mark already. Thank you ;). Your comments and chat messages have inspired me to revive this little space-which was once my emotional outlet.

 So where and what have I been up to for the past 10  months?

Well to summed it up, my life for the past months is comparable to a "see-saw" . It was an up and down experience of trying to disinter my dream and search for my personal legend.


I stopped pursuing MAN in  Xavier- Ateneo de Cagayan.
 I resigned from my previous company- NOVOMED.
 Got hired by a multinational branded generic pharmaceutical company- GETZ.

Transferred to the skirmish province of Maguindanao.

Lost my little angel due to Dengue Hemorrhagic Fever.

Enrolled MBA at Xavier- Ateneo de Cagayan.

and just recently,

Found my "heart" again in one of my recent trips to Manila. ;)

In the coming days as I know Ill be blogging more often , I will one by one share to you all the significant experiences I have had for the past 10 months. For the meantime, please and I hope you'll find it worth reading again some of my old posts :) hehe. My blog will be undergoing some changes soon and part of which is that I am going to delete some of these posts.


TRAVELS

Falling In-Love with Cebu
Wonderful Wondrous Wonder
Escape to Igacos
Getaway in Canibad

OPINIONS

Exploitation of Angels
Everyone is a Critic
All Ditch Up
Maguindanao Massacre: A Nationwide Malaise
Homosexuals: Threat to Moral Fibers
An Obscenity to end all Obscenity

FRATSOR


Operation Timbang: Saving the Child Soldier
Hiya Tigidig 2010: Extraordinaire!
Dictum

PERSONAL


People of my 2010
Grammarian I'm Not
RN na AKO
A Love Letter from Papa
Celebrating Young Adulthood




Thank you and Happy reading! Mwah!







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"He Sings So Good because He Sings for You"



Since I heard Clay Aiken sang Elton John's "Dont Let the Sun Go Down on Me" on the second season of American Idol, I have been an avid fan of the show. But aside from the great and sometimes unbelievable voices that produced the kind of David Archuleta, Carrie Underwood, Jenifer Hudson, Chris Daughtry, Kelly Clarkson and Adam Lambert to name a few, sometimes it's actually the story behind the intentions and motivations of each hopefuls that amazes me.
(Chris Medina @ Auditions)

This year a person by the name of Chris Medina auditioned at Milwaukee who impressed the judges not just with his amazing talent but also with his genuine and perhaps saddest love story in the history of American Idol. He brought with him his girlfriend for eight years and fiance for almost three years- Juliana Ramos.  They were about to get married but Juliana got involved in a tragic accident on October 2, 2009, just two months before their wedding. The accident left Juliana at a nearly paralyzed state after suffering from a severe skull fracture, traumatic brain injury and multiple fractures to her angelic face.
(Juliana after the accident)

( Chris Composition for Juliana- What has become of Me)
I was really moved to tears . Chris just simply proved to everyone on what a real man should be- that is to stood beside someone you love and be their hope against all the odds. My heart really goes out to both of them. They are a living proof that love conquers all. It may seem like a never ending struggle but I hope they will continue to be strong for each other especially during the seemingly impossible days. Miracles do happen and I know with God's grace, good things are bound to come their way.





For more of Juliana and Chris, you may visit Juliana's personal Myspace account here or join the Facebook page "For Juliana" and find out current updates about her. You may also visit the Laurus Foundation for some donations.
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People of my 2010


 Sometimes in the most unexpected situations, we will meet some people,  touch our lives and WE ARE NEVER THE SAME AGAIN.


In this post, allow me to give credit to some amazing people who truly made an impact in my life this year. I could never thank them enough for shaping my being and for touching my life in ways I never thought possible. These are the people who helped me realize that life, amidst its various adversities is still wonderful.





Renz Victoria Dee Balagtas, Toni Rose Ann Apostol,Marinel Mae Badilles
I am comforted by the fact that these 3 beautiful, smart and witty ladies happened to belong to my very few friends. They are like sisters to me and though we are all busy with our own career now, they always find time to bond with me everytime I visit Davao. And just like the old days, we couldn't stop laughing and giggling as we share our stories. These are the people who remained patient with my bipolar tendencies, who never gets tired listening to all my frustrations and who cheers me up whenever I am about to give up. .I know wherever we are, and whatever it is that we are doing, the emblem of our friendship will always be with us.



Celeste Camello
Though, she rarely gets to bond with us (mariel, renz and toni) as she is already based in her hometown in Isulan, Ces really never fails to make me laugh everytime we chat. We have that trademark distinct only to both of us- our sarcasm , which actually makes everyone burst into laughter as we start to be mean with each other. Yes! That's how our friendship is- we give each other tough love. Like me, she's also desperate to find her true love, no matter how much it will cost her. As she puts it, when will her hymen get torn? LOL. Kidding aside, Ces is one person that brings extra joy to the people around her. As we keep on saying to each other, I MISS LAUGHING WITH YOU. Indeed Ces, I miss laughing with you.


Me and RB

Rhyan Ben Dasalla
I must say that RB has been a very good friend to me. Like Ces, we also give each other tough love. People around us would really laugh everytime we taunt each other as we stage a scripted (sometimes not) catfights. I can really say that we are the life of the group. I will always be grateful to him for opening the doors of their house and for sharing his room with me during the time I needed a place in Davao while I was having my instant product training in our company. He's like a brother to me. He was the first person who was there when I had the biggest trouble of my life. For hours, he listened and tried to make me feel comfortable while I was weeping on the phone. He was with me all the way and waited patiently while I was seeking answers and confirmations from all my fears. Though lately I have been very vocal with my "tampo" to him for he seems so distant to us after having his new set of friends, I will still remember our friendship that way. I will always remember that he was there when I felt so helpless. I will always remember that he helped me stood up from all my downfalls. Men. I miss this boy big time :(.


Blue Edward Sanchez
Blue or Koi2 (as what we used to call each other) cared for each other in a very unusual way that even I never thought possible. I really thank God for allowing me to meet this person who at one point I shared with the sweetest and most genuine moments of my life. To his entire family, I could never thank them enough for the acceptance, the congeniality and the care they have given me during my visits at their home. "Ours" may not be an "ideal" ending for the many but given a different circumstance, I know it would have worked better. He is one person who is a living proof that 1) someone out there still exists who want to take love seriously; 2) that its possible to fall for someone you haven't meet yet, and  3) that long distance relationships DO work. Our experiences really made me a better and a much stronger person. While we have chosen to go on in separate ways, I know time will come that our paths will intersect again and hopefully by then, we have already found that special someone who will give meaning to what love and happiness really is.


Nilo and Suzette Novo
My Boss/es. I will always be proud that I came to know this lovely and God-centered couple. The humble beginnings of NOVOMED Pharma and to how successful it is now is really an inspiration to me. I owe them both so much for giving me the chance to experience how it is to be part of their family. If not for them and for NOVOMED, perhaps I am still bumming all day today. Thank you for the job. Thank you for appreciating all my effort. Thank you for all the opportunities.


This is my way of saying thank you to them. May you also became a blessing to other people's lives just like these people are to me. :) LOVE! LOVE! LOVE!

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Exploitation of Angels





The huge number of desperate nurses who are seeking  for clinical exposure has opened an opportunity for hospital administrators to take advantage of the situation and to lessen its costs of expenses. The so-called "volunteerism-for a fee" scheme is currently observe in almost all of the hospitals right now.  And to make the exploitation less obvious, hospitals are fondly calling it a "training program". The principle is very simple- "PAY AS YOU WORK" which is usually good for a month to six months.

While it is true that no one is twisting anybody's arm to participate in these programs, it is still a deceitful act. There is no other way for you to be employed in their hospital unless you participate in the program. So desperate nurses would still flock and submit themselves with a hope that later on they will be absorb. But this is again far from reality. After months of training, nurses are sent home coupled with a promise that they will be called back if there are vacancies. Well, options are given to continue the training for another month to six months but of course you have to pay the fee again. On the other hand, as another cycle of volunteers finishes the course of the training, another batch will commence.


This is how nurses employment system is currently practiced. And really, after a year of having my PRC license, I could not still decipher the rationale behind it. For me, it is an absurdity. IT IS SO CORRUPT and I will never immense myself to that. Dr. Hermogenes Jarin, the vice-president of Philippine Hospital Association gave a lame excuse that there is always a fee for internship. Such was an idiotic remark. True, there is a fee for internship but registered nurses are already done with the internship as included in the nursing education curriculum. And the very fact that the program has become a vicious cycle, certainly it is illegal.

I salute though my fellows in the profession who have taken the act of martyrdom by submitting themselves to the corrupt system. As opportunities abroad are requiring at least a year of work experience, they are all more concerned for the experience that they will gain and for the certificate of training that will be given to them. But here's the glitch. Where do you draw the line between the responsibilities of a real staff nurse from a nurse trainee? The fact is trainees are not at all responsible for the 100% care of the patient, especially when it comes to delicate nursing procedures. Having said that, training experience is not tantamount to work experience that is why certificate of trainings are not honored abroad.

It is indeed a big shame that it is the public hospitals which mostly practice this corrupt scheme. And personally, I am offended by the fact that the San Pedro Hospital, the based hospital of San Pedro College, one of the three biggest hospital in Davao City and run by the Dominican Sisters of the Trinity is also engaged in the practice. Perhaps, San Pedro Hospital has the most corrupt scheme having the shortest period of training, which is one month and  would cost around P3000. And yes, they train but they don't hire.

Not even once, have I doubted the nobility of the nursing profession. The opportunity to take care of the sick and see them recuperate back to their pre-illness state or to witness someone die with dignity in the midst of genuine love and grief from family is perhaps the greatest reward a nurse can ever have. We deal with real emotions, with real experiences. WE CARE. It's just so sad that the nobility has been tarnished with corrupt intentions of gaining more, of earning more at the expense of the desperate and willing nurses.

So now that this deceitful scheme is finally exposed and has finally reached the doors of the senate, I really hope that those in power would look into this matter seriously and would put a stop to the exploitation. And to the Dominican Sisters of the Trinity of San Pedro Hospital, Sisters, in the name of St. Therese of Lisieux our patron saint PLEASE STOP THE INSANITY. Remember, as what our school motto says, LOVE SERVES. :). AMEN

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